Friday, October 17, 2008
My Poor Little Man
Sunday, October 12, 2008
Today's a bad day. I guess I'm feeling sorry for myself, and scared for Hannah. Her mom took her from the orphanage 3 days after our NOID and apparently is in hiding from an abusive husband who won't allow Hannah in his home. I pray Hannah is safe!!
Tina from The Story of You is so sweet. She emailed me and said when I'm ready, she'll change my home page. I just can't bring myself to take her picture down. I know it has to go, if only because it's the right thing to do for our new little girl, whoever she may be, but this is unbelievably painful. So much for my "Retail Therapy", I might as well have flushed that $$ down the toilet for all the help it did me.
I'm not alone in this NOID business, there have been quite a few lately, with no end in sight. No one talks about them, but they're there. There are many, many devastated families, I just seem to be a more vocal one.
So, we're supposed to get a new referral, a new little girl for us. When will that be? Who knows? Will Vietnam stay open long enough for us to even receive a referral? I've been reading JCIS, Ethica, Voices of Vietnam Integrity, etc. It doesn't look promising.
TOMB of the UNKOWN SOLDIER
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
Movin' On
Ahhh...A little Retail Therapy "Does a Body Good"!
Paisley and I left the house today as soon as Amy's bus was out of sight. I needed to get away from this computer and it's bad news, and out of this house! 85 and sunshine, what a nice day. I thank God everyday for planting us here in South Florida. Did I say a LITTLE Retail therapy? Make that BIG damage...2 hours at Super Target can do that to a girl. But you know what? I've been pinching pennies for so long, trying to get travel money together (that I won't need now for a LONG time, like NEXT year), I needed this. I don't even feel guilty!! And what did I buy? NOTHING! No, really, I bought nothing. I was supposed to get the SLEEPING BEAUTY DVD, which Amy calls NIGHT-NIGHT BEAUTY, but didn't want to spend the $20. ha ha ! Well, I have "stuff" but I couldn't tell you what I bought for all that $$$$. I have no idea where all the $$ went. I bought APPLES. I know they're a small fortune, but that didn't make my total that much! All I know is, I spent a lot of money on a bunch a junk. So, Mike, if your reading this post from work, be forewarned, the bed is covered in bags of "stuff". And MaryLou, DON'T tell him, it's our little secret...until tonight :)
OH! We had a first today too! I took Paisley to Mickey D's. Her first time INSIDE. She wasn't impressed. NO, I didn't let her in the dirty playroom. She looked at the apples and nuggets, dipped a corner of apple in the caramel, took one bite, chewed it a LONG time, and then spit it out in my hand, took one sip of chocolate milk, ate the lettuce from my salad, the pieces without the spicy dressing, and layed all over the bench. A big waste of time and $$$. Look who's complaining about wasting $$$ ha ha ha!
I gotta go clean up a little before dinner. When Mike gets home I think I'll take Amy for some new shoes. OI! More $$$. Then be home and have everyone in bed so we can watch the DEBATE!!! The first was so boring I fell asleep. The Palin debate wasn't much better and I slept through most of that too, however I've caught the entire thing on reruns! Let's hope McCain WAKES UP & SMELLS THE COFFEE tonight. GEESH, I could be more aggressive than he's been and I'm just a SOCCER MOM!!! Does he realize he's fighting to be the PRESIDENT?????????? ROMNEY & PALIN now THAT would be a great ticket!!
Monday, October 6, 2008
HOW FITTING
How IRONIC! I just received our official I-600 withdrawal notice. Almost 7 days to the minute of that fateful NOID. I guess I should be happy. Men is with her mommy and we are now free to pursue the little girl intended to be ours. This chapter is CLOSED!
Sunday, October 5, 2008
The Week From HELL
Thursday, October 2, 2008
It's with a sad heart I write this post. Tonight we say goodbye to Hannah Vu Thi Men. Her birth mother has decided she wants her to remain at the orphanage. That is her right as a birth parent.
We continue to have faith that we are on the path God has chosen for us. God's plans are always perfect. We may not always understand them, but we don't doubt them for a minute. We serve an Awesome God and we are waiting for Him to show us His perfect plan for our family. Where He leads, we will follow.
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
in case you aren't familiar with the term...
Many people have written to ask me what a NOID is. Well, it's the WORST thing you can get from our government when trying to adopt a child internationally. It's a Notice Of Intent to Deny your child a visa to enter the USA.
You have 3 choices when presented with a NOID...
1. leave the child and walk away
2. live in the country with your child for 2 years, then a visa will be issued
3. hire an attorney, for $20,000 to fight it
We're hiring an attorney and will fight! Leaving Hannah to live her childhood in an orphanage is NOT an option for us. Her birth mother has said all the charges in the NOID are FALSE. She wants her daughter to be adopted and live in America!
Monday, September 29, 2008
Sunday, September 28, 2008
Sunday Update
Good Sunday Morning Gang,
Mike's working today, the kids have been to Sunday school, and Amy, Austin, and Paisley are sick again...UGH! School germs, I can't seem to get rid of these fevers and runny noses, they come and go every few days :(
I'm waiting to hear from T in Vietnam...The hurricane that hit China 9/25, also hit Hannah's province in Vietnam!! Her province has severe flooding and mudslides, no electric, thousands of homes destroyed and deaths! Hannah's orphanage is about 50 feet from a huge lake...she fell in during the summer and a little boy fished her out just in time. They both lost their shoes and T had to pay to replace them. Anyhow, I'm bringing that little boy something SPECIAL! So, I'm waiting to hear if Hannah and the other children are safe. I guess there's no phone service so it's taking a few days, and I'm going crazy waiting for an email! :(
OK US EMBASSY We need to get there and get our girl, so SEND OUR APPROVAL TONIGHT!!! PLEASE.................?????????????
Anyone want to join me in prayer to get our approval this week???
Friday, September 26, 2008
SOMETHING NEW
Hi Gang,
OK, I created my final Yahoo! group. Come join me and we can get to know each other better. It's simply called POKONUTZ and will be the sister to this BLOG, but a place where we can get to know each other, rejoice in each others happiness and support each other during our trials. I'm looking forward to "meeting" all my new friends and re-kindling old friendships.
Here's the link...and I hope I did it correctly...see you there.
POKONUTZ : POKONUTZ
POO-POO
NO approval this AM. Now we put our hopes into late Sunday night/early Monday AM. Too bad the Embassy doesn't work Saturdays.
At least something is moving, my VISA application is already at the VN Embassy. HEY! Maybe I'll get my Visa AND approval Monday AM. One can only daydream :(
After hearing the news about WAMU.. I'm just grateful I'm not planning on using CCs for my travel. I would be in a panic!!
Is anyone thinking of taking their $$$ out of their bank this AM? With my travel in the near future, I'm seriously thinking about it. I need to make sure I have my cashola to get my girl. What a nightmare that would be if my bank closed.
I think I need to start a new YAHOO! group...we can't "chat" on this BLOG. I have one for each of my adoptions, why shouldn't I have one for Miss Hannah's? I'll let you know when I think of a KOOL name for it and we can all chat :)
Yes, I'm still up on my anniversary..OH, just looked at the clock, it's over! Well, at least Paisley is sleeping sweetly, in the middle of my bed. I'm here washing all my bed linens and quilt, she puked all over my bed 2 hours ago. So much for ..anything... Well, there's always next year :)
Now, where's that I-600 approval???
Thursday, September 25, 2008
HEY WASHINGTON LISTEN UP!
THIS WAS SENT TO ME AND I AGREE........
I'm against the $85,000,000,000.00 bailout of AIG .
Instead, I'm in favor of giving $85,000,000,000 to America in a We Deserve It Dividend .
To make the math simple, let's assume there are 200,000,000 bona fide U.S. Citizens 18+.
Our population is about 301,000,000 +/- counting every man, woman and child. So 200,000,000 might be a fair stab at adults 18 and up..
So divide 200 million adults 18+ into $85 billon that equals $425,000.00.
My plan is to give $425,000 to every person 18+ as a We Deserve It Dividend .
Of course, it would NOT be tax free. So let's assume a tax rate of 30%.
Every individual 18+ has to pay $127,500.00 in taxes. That sends $25,500,000,000 right back to Uncle Sam.
But it means that every adult 18+ has $297,500.00 in their pocket. A husband and wife has $595,000.00.
What would you do with $297,500.00 to $595,000.00 in your family? Pay off your mortgage – housing crisis solved. Repay college loans – what a great boost to new grads Put away money for college – it'll be there Save in a bank – create money to loan to entrepreneurs. Buy a new car – create jobs Invest in the market – capital drives growth Pay for your parent's medical insurance – health care improves Enable Deadbeat Dads to come clean – or else
Remember this is for every adult U S Citizen 18 + including the folks who lost their jobs at Lehmann Brothers and every other company that is cutting back. And of course, for those serving in our Armed Forces.
If we're going to re-distribute wealth let's really do it...instead of trickling out a puny $1000.00 ( 'vote buy' ) economic incentive that is being proposed by one of our candidates for President.
If we're going to do an $85 billion bailout, let's bail out every adult U S Citizen 18+!
As for AIG – liquidate it. Sell off its parts. Let American General go back to being American General. Sell off the real estate. Let the private sector bargain hunters cut it up and clean it up.
Here's my rationale. We deserve it and AIG doesn't.
Sure it's a crazy idea that can 'never work.'
But can you imagine the Coast-To-Coast Block Party !
How do you spell Economic Boom?
I trust my fellow adult Americans to know how to use the $85 Billion We Deserve It Dividend more than I do the geniuses at AIG or in Washington DC .
And remember, The this plan only really costs $59.5 Billion because $25.5 Billion is returned instantly in taxes to Uncle Sam.
38 YEARS
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
It's Wednesday!
Hi Gang,
It's Wednesday and no approval yet. I guess you figured that out since you didn't hear me SCREAMING!
My Visa application is on it's way to the Vietnam Embassy in San Francisco via FEDEX right now! I decided to get a 3 month Visa so I didn't have to worry about expediting when the call comes to "GET YOUR TICKETS AND VISA" I want to be ready to go on a moments notice so I'm getting prepared. I told T. to make that G&R ASAP and I'll be there!
This weekend I'll have Hannah all packed and most of my stuff too. I even have my hair color waiting for a last minute touch-up :) I do have to pick up a few things for Hannah, since it won't be blistering hot when I'm there. Amy and Hannah are the same size, although 2 years apart, so Amy inherited all Hannah's cute summer clothes. At least they're going to good use. She looks SO cute going to pre-school in them.
Everyone still loves school. Ryan hasn't had anymore problems with the biter and Megan is maintaining all "A"s . She loves Middle School. Amy is in love with her teachers, Ms Ruth and Ms Daisy, and Austin is progressing nicely. Now, if he could just get the hang of using the potty!
Time for Amy's bus, so I better go. Paisley and I are decorating for HALLOWEEN today!
Monday, September 22, 2008
it's MONDAY!!!
It's officially MONDAY, here and in Vietnam. I have a good feeling about this week and our I-600 approval coming. Hannah's labs are being looked over today by the Embassy personnel, maybe right now! I stayed up as late as possible, but no word yet, so I'm off to bed. Maybe there will be good news in the AM.
Friday, September 19, 2008
FRIDAY UPDATE
Hi Gang,
Here's where we stand on the adoption front. Hannah's labs were received by the Embassy Friday. Our agency will hear from them Monday. I'm hoping it's a go and we'll get our approval next week. I won't hear anything until Tuesday AM so it's going to be a LONG weekend..
My 5 yr old Ryan went to hug and kiss his friend R good-bye yesterday after kindergarten while they were both waiting to be picked up after school. R decided to bite him in the stomach because he didn't like that idea! Due to the fact I could easily turn this BLOG X-rated by telling you what I think about R's mother who continued to yell "this is unacceptable behavior" OVER and OVER and didn't apologize to Ryan, but made her son the "victim" I will just say an incident report was filed, my son sat in the clinic listening to this moron rant as he was crying and holding an ice bag to his stomach not knowing WHAT he had done wrong! The skin wasn't broken but the blood rose to the top of his skin. My 5 yr old now knows he can't kiss in kindergarten like he did in pre-school and he's not to play with the biter any more.
I'm disgusted with women like that! He's an innocent little boy. WHAT is she that afraid ? Or is she prejudice against Ryan because he's from China? Or maybe because he is cleft and looks different? I don't know, but it's something. It just wasn't normal to carry on like that when it was YOUR son who bit mine!. If Ryan had bit someone ( highly unlikely since he had his 4 top teeth removed due to poor dental care in a Chinese orphanage) I would have apologized to the boy AND the mom. What's with people today?? Have they no manners? No sense of decency? Apparently NOT.
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
It's Thursday morning in Hanoi
And Hannah's lab results are being translated as I write this!!!!
T got them late yesterday afternoon. Next step is to send them to the US Embassy in HCMC. I'm assuming that will be this afternoon or tomorrow. At any rate, the Embassy should have them by Monday. Wouldn't it be nice if we got our approval next Thursday? That's our 38th wedding anniversary. Can't think of a more perfect gift for BOTH of us :)
I woke up at 6:45 this morning and ran to my computer to see if there was an email for me from Vietnam. YES!!! I went to bed 15 minutes too early last night. T emailed me at 12:45 AM, the labs were drawn, and Hannah looked healthy and happy. I couldn't ask for more. Now to get an email saying they have sent the translated, notarized, labs on to the US Embassy in HCMC.
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
It's 9:30 AM in Hanoi, Vietnam right now and sweet little Hannah should be waiting for her labs to be drawn at one of the US Embassy approved facilities. There are no appointments to be made, you just show up, wait, and hope there is room for you that day. Someone from Hannah's orphanage brought her to Hanoi this morning, a 3 hour drive, just to have her labs re-drawn for the US Embassy. I sure hope it gets done today, and I really hope the Embassy will approve our I-600 quickly, once they get the new labs. I can be ready to travel within a week!!
Hannah has known she has a family for 6 months now and cries to come home every time T visits her orphanage. She always asks her if she brought her mommy with her so she can go home. Poor baby!
Sunday, September 14, 2008
Saturday, September 13, 2008
~~~ SIGH ~~~
I guess you've noticed I haven't posted in a while. I'm depressed. I just couldn't bring myself to say anything. I have nothing positive to say. Hannah's labs were not drawn at a US Embassy approved facility, the US Embassy would not accept them, and sent an email to my agency Aug. 29 saying so! So far, our agency has had no luck getting an appointment to have them redrawn. All this waiting has been for NOTHING! I thought the Embassy would have the new labs by now and I would be getting our approval SOON! But NOOoooOOOOO.... If I didn't have babies here that needed me I'd hop on a plane and get it done myself ! I know, I know, my agency is doing their best, but we've been waiting a long time for this little girl. We've been staring at her face since MARCH! That's 7 months!! Enough already!
And if I don't get out of this funk I'll have so much crap on this BLOG you won't be able to read my posts! Then Tina at "THE STORY OF YOU" will be upset because she did such a FABULOUS job redesigning it for me!!! Have you noticed the new "stuff" I added ? I don't even know what that monkey is supposed to be for, but I saw the link on another BLOG ( scanning every VN Blog I can find) and added it to mine too. Hey, it matches the jungle theme :)
Tomorrow is Paisley's birthday. I can't believe our little peanut will be 2 . I'll have to post some "then and now" pics of her tomorrow.
Sunday, September 7, 2008
SUNDAY NOON
Sunday school started today and the kids were excited to go. Mike then took them to church and they should be home shortly. Austin came home from school Friday afternoon with a fever and runny nose which continued thru yesterday so I stayed home with him and Paisley. He seems better this morning. I hope he will be OK to go to school tomorrow. The thought of an MD visit in the morning isn't appealing to me :(
Friday morning, after getting Amy off to school, I hobbled to the grocery store with Paisley to stock up on hurricane supplies. IKE was poised for a visit. We did have them, but these kids are eating machines so I had to top off our stash. I now have enough TP to last until Halloween. That is, unless the little darlings unroll it into the toilet. You know they can't just unravel it on the floor so I can salvage it ( and isn't TP expensive now?) ...OH, NO, my crew has to unravel it into the TOILET. And you know it is always in a toilet that someone FORGOT TO FLUSH!!! And who do you think has to fish all that soggy mess out??? You got it..ME. Thank goodness I color my hair and have a box of rubber gloves handy I can use for that yummy task!
But, I'm getting off the subject....HURRICANE IKE...after spending over $500 in extra supplies ( my Vietnam $$$ I might add) IKE has decided to visit CUBA! Now, not that I mind missing his visit...I just wish I could return all this STUFF! Have you any idea how stuffed my cabinets, closets, and garage are now???? The good thing is, I don't think I'll be traveling any time soon to Vietnam, so I'm good for groceries for the next few weeks.
VIETNAM...........................
Well, well, well, The Embassy now wants Hannah's labs redrawn at one of their "approved" labs... Maybe after that happens they will move a little quicker and approve us to bring her home BEFORE THANKSGIVING!!! I think I'll aim for HALLOWEEN... The Hurricane food will be gone by then, and if I get to leave sooner, at least Mike will have a house full of food easy to prepare..and tons of TP. ha ha ha.
I hear the church crew coming in now, gotta go hobble to the door with my broken toes and let them in!
Thursday, September 4, 2008
It was brought to my attention, at 10 PM last night, after I returned home from WALMART, where I hobbled around on a broken toe buying $30 worth of "rat" products, (Angel needed a cage,food,etc.) that my BLOG makes it look like a certain husband doesn't do anything around here. I don't recall ever saying that. So, let me set the record straight........
My hubby of 38 years this Sept. 25th helps around the house. Yes, he is a good boy. He wakes all the kids in the AM and gets the boys ready for school. He brushes their teeth, EXCEPT for yesterday when I broke my toe doing it, ( and now it will be his PERMANENT job), dresses them in the clothes I layed out the night before, and makes their breakfast ( sometimes). Then he drives some to school. When he comes home from work, he gives the "littles" their baths and dresses them for bed. Of course I usually have to find their PJs because after all these years, he still can't figure out what drawer they're in. When Austin and Paisley wake during the night he gets up and quiets them. He also helps with dishes, cleaning, even mops the floors. AND, he makes beds too! Oh, Oh, he grocery shops too and is pretty good at it! He's a LOT of help and I couldn't do it without him. So there...I hope this makes you happy Mickey! :)
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
Welcome to the Poko NUT House!
OUCH! I broke my toe this morning! I was brushing Austin's teeth, he was screaming, as usual, it was 7:15, and then I decided to carry him to his room to get him dressed for school. After all, the bus is SUPPOSED to come at 7:30 so we are running late! Now, we're ALWAYS in a hurry in the AM. Probably because we don't get up until 7. I guess I need to change that! Anyhow, I jammed my foot on the door frame of the bathroom and saw stars!! My middle toe was heading west while my other toes were going north. YEP, this is definitely a broken toe. I'm a nurse, I can diagnose :) Everyone stands still. ha ha ha, I guess I'm more important than I thought. I was surrounded by lots of caring faces, as I'm screaming in pain. Ya, I don't do well when I hurt my little toesies. After I tell Mike, NO, I am not going to the ER since all they will do is tape it and I can do that myself, everyone gets back to getting ready for school. Here I am trying to tape my toes together while Curious George is on TV, the boys are looking for shoes, ( lined up by the door) Paisley is screaming and everyone else is in chaos. YIKES! this hurts! So, I hobble around, get everyone off to school except Amy, finally get a cup of tea, watch a little tropical storm update, and Paisley decides she needs held or she will continue to scream and cry. Sounds like a repeat of yesterday. Then Amy comes to tell me SOMETHING. I have no idea what she is saying to me ( the reason she is in pre-school, she gets speech ). OHHHHHHH the HAMSTER got away!!!!!!
WHAT HAMSTER YOU ASK? That's right, we didn't have any pets last time I posted did we?
I hate pets.... especially rat pets...I'm always the one who ends up caring for them, like I have time for that.
Anyhow, last night M was up at 10 PM and I was combing her hair after her shower. She looks outside and says " is that a hamster"? I yell to mike.."We must have RATS!!! get some traps !!!!" Well, Mike goes outside because M says NO it's a hamster. Now I know there are no hamsters on our patio, so I don't let her outside. Mike is out there looking and finds a lovely giant BUFU frog, the kind that killed my 2 beautiful St Bernards!!! M says NO, It was a hamster, NOT a frog. So, he looks longer, and lo and behold what does he spy behind the bar? A teadybear hamster!!! We now have a hamster :( in the girls room. Paisley got in there while I was reading emails and dumped over the bin it was in. It's now running around the room. I shut the door so it can't get out. I'm not touching it! But if that thing, it's name is ANGEL, gnaws on the computer wires. somebody is in BIG trouble.
I had to take the tape off my toes, it hurts worse with the tape. Now it's time to get Amy ready for school. I'll try the pics again. Maybe this time her eyes will be open. Then, maybe, if I'm really lucky, Paisley will take a nap and I can pick up all these LEGOS!!!! OUCH I hate stepping on Legos!
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Monday, September 1, 2008
JUST THOUGHT I WOULD ADD
Just in case someone in our little group here doesn't know, HANNAH isn't home to celebrate her 6th birthday with her family. She's sitting in an orphanage in Hung Yen, Vietnam, waiting for the US Embassy in HCMC to approve our I-600 so I can go get her.
SO.....if there are any Embassy employees reading this BLOG :) please, please, please, go take a look at our paperwork.
HEY, I'm a mom, I'm not above begging!!
Our facilitator in Vietnam was kind enough to take a cake and baby doll to Hannah, from us, for her birthday. She knows we love her and want to bring her home as soon as we can.
OOPS! This just in, HURRICANE HANNA has just been born! Looks like we're in the "cone", but should be missed since we're in South Florida and HH is headed to Georgia.
Sunday, August 31, 2008
I'm sure you're wondering why I posted that poem yesterday. Well, I'll tell you. Someone sent it to me and I just loved it. It brought back memories of when I was working at the hospital. Most of my patients were older men. All alone, facing open heart surgery, no family, some were confused and some just mean, and some didn't make it. I remember thinking, while taking care of them, or wrapping their body, this was someones baby, this was someones "love of my life". This was a baby boy with his whole life in front of him. This grumpy old man was probably the cutest little guy when he was just a boy. How sad to be all alone now. How sad not to have someone with you that loves you. A mom loved this man many many years ago. A mom hugged and kissed his face and told him she loved him. And here he is now, all alone.
That poem just brought back all those memories and I needed to share it.
Saturday, August 30, 2008
Crabby Old Man
- What do you see nurses? .What do you see? What are you thinking.....when you're looking at me?
- A crabby old man, ...not very wise, Uncertain of habit .......with far away eyes?
- Who dribbles his food.......and makes no reply. When you say in a loud voice.....'I do wish you'd try!' Who seems not to notice the things that you do. And forever is losing, A sock or shoe?
- Who, resisting or not...........lets you do as you will, With bathing and feeding......The long day to fill? Is that what you're thinking?......Is that what you see? Then open your eyes, nurse......you're not looking at me.
- I'll tell you who I am,.........As I sit here so still, As I do at your bidding, ....as I eat at your will I'm a small child of Ten.......with a father and mother, Brothers and sisters .........who love one another
- A young boy of Sixteen.......with wings on his feet Dreaming that soon now........a lover he'll meet. A groom soon at Twenty,.......my heart gives a leap. Remembering, the vows......that I promised to keep
- At Twenty-Five, now .........I have young of my own. Who need me to guide ...And a secure happy home. A man of Thirty, ...........My young now grown fast, Bound to each other .......With ties that should last.
- At Forty, my young sons have grown and are gone, But my woman's beside me.......to see I don't mourn. At Fifty, once more, Babies play around !my knee, Again, we know children .......My loved one and me.
- Dark days are upon me. My wife is now dead. I look at the future .............I shudder with dread. For my young are all rearing......young of their own. And I think of the years....... And the love that I've known.
- I'm now an old man.........and nature is cruel. 'Tis jest to make old age look like a fool. The body, it crumbles..........grace and vigor, depart. There is now a stone........where I once had a heart.
- But inside this old carcass ..A young guy still dwells, And now and again .......my battered heart swells I remember the joys........... I remember the pain. And I'm loving and living.............life over again.
- I think of the years all too few......gone too fast. And accept the stark fact........that nothing can last. So open your eyes, people ......open and see.. Not a crabby old man. Look closer....see........ME!!
Remember this poem when you next meet an older person who you might brush aside without looking at the young soul within.....we will all, one day, be there, too!
Thursday, August 28, 2008
I GUESS WE'RE IN IT FOR THE LONG HAUL
Austin woke up screaming at 4:30, something normal for him, so, after I got him back to sleep I decided to check emails. I DID end up writing to Ms Russell at the US EMBASSY in HCMC yesterday afternoon. Well, I got a response back already! And it wasn't the form letter. That was nice, someone actually took the time to email me personally. BUT...It wasn't what I wanted to hear. They said because Hannah isn't in a serious health condition, we will wait the 60 business days for approval.
NOT what I wanted to hear, but at least I know now. I feel worse for Hannah than us, she's known she has a family since April, and has been asking for us for a LONG time.
Looks like I will spend THANKSGIVING in Vietnam. Funny, Mike and I were on a plane to Vietnam on THANKSGIVING DAY in 2006. I never would have imagined I would be doing that again!
Wednesday, August 27, 2008
We're BACK
Amy met Ms. Ruth. What a nice teacher she has, and the teacher's aide is Ms Daisy, very nice too. Amy's class is pretty small. Amy makes 6, 4 girls and 2 boys, all 4 yr olds. Seems everyone was absent today for one reason or another. There was only 1 little boy there today so Amy got lots of attention from Ms Daisy while I got to speak to Ms Ruth. As soon as the bus gets figured out, Amy will be on her way!
Amy will be meeting her teacher today at 1. Miss Ruth can't wait to meet Amy. Mike was at Amy's IEP meeting this AM and she will be in the afternoon class. 3 girls and 2 boys. Should be a nice little class. She goes by bus, so they said it may take 10 days. I could bring her to school, but I can;t pick her up. I have to be at Ryan;s school at 2 to pick him up, and then back home for Austin's (Amy's too) bus at 2:20. So, she must wait to start school. I don;t think that will be a problem. You should have seen the look of Sheer TERROR on her face when I told her I was taking her to school after lunch.
I think afternoon class will work perfectly. She will get on the bus at 10:45 ( ya right, think Austin, who's bus still isn't on time) and home at 2;20 with Austin. I'll have an entire 3 HOURS with just Paisley. We can grocery shop, Christmas shop, go out to lunch, or just have fun at home, ALL BY OURSELVES. She will finally get some one on one time with mommy.
Day 23
And no approval yet. I know I said I would keep my fingers off the keyboard, but I just can't. It's toooo sad. My friends are loosing their referrals, children they have pictures of, children they love, and their hearts are breaking. The children are loosing the love of a mommy and daddy, they are loosing a family. Vietnam is closing to the US quickly, Province by Province. Is it too far a stretch to think maybe, just maybe, the entire country will close to the US soon, and even those of us with hard and fast referrals, just waiting for our I-600 approval, or a G&R date, may never see our children? No one is safe. Our Embassy needs to move quickly to get the approvals done so the children can find their forever families before all fails.
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
I just spoke with my agency. I am keeping my mouth SHUT and my fingers off the keyboard and will wait for my I-600 approval. Then I will THANK GOD for my daughter and fly as fast as I can to get her. Vietnam is getting really, really crazy right now. Referrals are falling apart as Sept 1 draws near, and provinces are refusing to work with the US. Oh how sad for all these children waiting for families. And how sad for the families loving these children.
DAY 22
And still no word from the US EMBASSY in HCMC about our I-600 approval. COME ON!!!
I'm still waiting to hear from our agency. Did they call HCMC? Did they email them? What have they heard from the Embassy? Tonight I will do it myself! During our last 2 Vietnam adoptions I emailed the Embassy a lot! I kept them up to date on my 2 adoptions ( I was using 2 different agencies at the same time) and they were wonderful and helped me every step of the way. I will be emailing Mary Russell at the Embassy in HCMC at 10 PM tonight if I don't hear from my agency by then. Maybe I'll do it sooner!!!
Hannah will be 6 on Monday. She needs us and we need her!
Monday, August 25, 2008
Monday Update
No approval again today :(
My agency was expecting our approval last week, so they'll be checking to see if there's a problem. I'm lucky they're pro-active and on top of things. I hope to hear today what they found out.
Hannah's Birthday is Sept. 1, Labor Day. We thought she would be home by then, or at least I would be with her in Hanoi. Now she'll spend her 6th Birthday with no family :(
Austin had his 3rd birthday on Sat. and Amy is also 3, I now have two 3 yr olds. Everyone wanted Austin's new trucks! I should have bought more, they just don't understand the concept of Birthday presents yet. Next year we'll do Disney for his birthday. We'll have Austin, Hannah and Paisley's birthdays all within 3 weeks of each other...so, I think LABOR DAY weekend for a big Mickey Birthday Party is a perfect idea! Then we have Amy and my birthday at Halloween, so there's another good time to visit the Mouse. Oh, and Mike's Bday is Dec.29...Christmas and NYE at Mickey's House! Then there is Meg ( Jan) and Ryan (Feb) Valentine's Day, another good weekend for Disney. I feel better already. My life's coming back to normal. Disney every 8 weeks, always puts a smile on my face :) I NEED A DISNEY FIX! Maybe I'll make some reservations today!
Austin's bus came on time today!!! He was ready and waiting, and all smiles. He took his lunch today. I thought it was safer since he got that huge egg on his head while walking to the cafeteria to get his lunch last Friday. He had bent over to look at a pencil sharpener someone had dropped on the sidewalk and cracked his head on the wall of the school! Since he's in Early Intervention, they bring their lunch back to the room to eat. Now he can stay in his room and wait for the buyers to get back. Anything to make it easier on Miss Sue. AND ME!
TS FAY is finally out of our area for good! GOOD RIDDANCE! Yeah for sunshine!!
Wed. is Amy's IEP and Thursday she can start school. However, we have to wait for the bus dept. to put her in the system. ( and we ALL know how they are) So who knows when she will really start. I was told they have 10 days to add her to the bus schedule. Now, isn't this silly? The bus already stops at the house for Austin, and they're in the same school.
No School tomorrow, it's a teacher work day. YEAH! I can sleep till 7!!
Sunday, August 24, 2008
Friday, August 22, 2008
FRIDAY UPDATE
This will be LONG, so grab a cup of coffee if you're following along.
Everyone but Amy has started school now. Amy should start in 10 days or so.
Austin's bus was only 40 minutes late today. I'd like to know how these drivers keep their jobs??? Don't they go over their route BEFORE school starts? And after the FIRST day of missing the stop ENTIRELY...wouldn't you think the driver would LOOK for the house on her own time??? I guess not if you KNOW you won't be fired. I am totally DISGUSTED with the BROWARD COUNTY SCHOOL BUS SYSTEM!!!!!! And YES, I spoke with supervisors everyday!!! I'm getting chest pains so let's talk about something else.............
Our ADOPTION of Hannah!!! well...I just erased everything I wrote about that!!!! Just in case someone reads it and I wait even LONGER for approval.. But after she's home..I'll fill you all in!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I HATE biting my tongue!!! I'm not good at it. I want to say SO MUCH... it's such BS!!!!
So............................
The girls are playing in their room..NOT...they are constantly in the freezer and fridge looking for food! They already had eggs, bagels, cheese, milk, juice, pudding,and cereal and it's only 11:00 AM.
Back to our sweet Hannah. She's doing well and has gained some weight back.. She is now happy and has chubby cheeks again I'm told. Since we haven't received our I-600 approval yet, we're on day 18, I think we'll be waiting a LONG time. This isn't what we were expecting. We thought, since Hannah is SN (older) we would have a quick approval like the other SN kids have had...NOPE! not for us. The SN kids from our agency had their approvals in 6 days! Not us. Looks like all the cute clothes I bought for Hannah to wear in Hot, Hot, Hanoi in Aug/Sept. will now be worn by Amy here in Hot, Hot, South Florida. At least someone will wear them. Too bad they're all sleeveless, now Amy can't wear them to school.
Miss Sue met the "real" Austin yesterday. He cried and screamed for quite some time she said. She also said she needs to bring herself an extra shirt to school now...She was soaked with tears and snot from holding Mr. Austin!! Poor Miss Sue. She'll need and EXTRA nice Christmas gift this year. I shouldn't laugh, but I told her he was a "challenge". He sure isn't Ryan, the dream child, who she had for 2 years.
OOPS..just got a call from Miss Sue..Austin hit his head on the wall at school and has a huge bump!!! They are putting ice on him now! Oh Austin!!
This post has taken 2 hours to write with all the interruptions I've had....I gotta get some laundry done before we drown in it...Talk to you later!
Thursday, August 21, 2008
IT'S A GIRL!!!!!
HERE SHE IS!!! ISN'T SHE BEAUTIFUL???
FINALLY
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
IN 8 HOURS
Monday, August 18, 2008
TROPICAL STORM FAY
No school again tomorrow :(
I went to bed last night with the computer models edging FAY west into the gulf and woke up to the original models, FAY hitting the West coast of Florida. We're on the East coast, outside of Ft. Lauderdale.
We've had lots and lots of rain since this morning but things are supposed to go downhill from here for the next 24 hours. BET THERE IS NO SCHOOL AGAIN WEDNESDAY! When I look at the radar, I swear FAY is coming straight up the middle of Florida.
Shelters are now opening for low laying areas because we may get over 8 inches of rain. Our pool has another 2 inches before it floods... I guess that will happen sometime tonight.
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Ryan wore his new school shorts to church today...well, he started out wearing them...until they fell to his ankles!!! They are size 2. Now what do I do? Where the heck will I find size 18 months in Khaki and Navy today???
AND, I forgot to buy the boys sox!
BRAVE DADDY
Daddy is a brave boy! He took everyone to church this AM, ALONE, while I stayed home with the contagious Mr. Austin. Even Paisley went along. I told him to SIT IN THE BACK!!!
Saturday, August 16, 2008
BIRTHDAY TIME AGAIN!!!!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY KIM!!
Today our beautiful Kimberly Sue turns 40!
I remember the day she was born like it was yesterday. How could 40 years have gone by so quickly?
Happy Birthday Sweetie! Have fun in Vegas and win lots of $$$$$
Love and Kisses
Mom and Dad
WHERE'S THAT WALL TO BANG MY HEAD AGAINST?
Daddy has Austin at the ER now. Seems that "cold sore" is popping out all over my poor little boys body. His backside, hips, knees, legs, back of his hands, etc. I don't know what it is and late Sat. afternoon, the quickest course of action is the ER. I would say it's chicken pox, but they start on the back and chest, and aren't this big, and he's had his immunizations. But they sure LOOK like GIANT, and I mean GIANT, Chicken Pox! Oh, I guess they would...cold sore, chicken pox...all the same herpes virus. CRAP CRAP CRAP!
OI VEY!
I don't think it matters if TS/HURRICANE FAY makes a stop here...I don't think Austin will be in school Monday.
48 HOURS TO GO
And my plans are falling apart FAST...First we have that darn tropical storm FAY churning south of us. Who knows where it will go? Probably not here, but while we're in that famous "cone of uncertainty" we are uncertain if school will start on Monday as planned.
And then there's Austin. Last Sunday I said to Mike.." Is that a cold sore on Austin's lower lip?" " No", he ASSURED me, "he's only 2". WELL.....it IS a cold sore and Mr. Austin has been rubbing it with the back of his hand ALL WEEK...from ear to ear, across his chin. This morning he has about 60 tiny cold sores starting on that rubbing track!!! Now, how do I send him to school like that?
Thursday we had gone to Austin's school and met his teacher Miss Sue. Austin is Dev. delayed so will be in the PLACE program at school. Ryan had been in Sue's class for 2 years and is going to kindergarten Monday. Austin played in his new school room and screamed and cried and had a MAJOR temper tantrum when we had to leave, POOR MISS SUE. I was SO looking forward to little Mr. Austin getting on that yellow school bus Monday morning. He's been walking around the house all week with his McQueen backpack and McQueen shoes on.
And Amy? Amy is registered for school too. Had her testing done last April and qualified for a half day with Austin ... Thursday, while at orientation for Amy, I found out they "forgot" to have the IEP...now Amy has to wait for 2 weeks before we can have the IEP and she can start school. Amy is 3 and has been walking around with her Cinderella backpack on all week.
She and I will BOTH be crying when that bus leaves without her and Austin Monday morning.
I just want to bang my head against a wall!!!
Friday, August 15, 2008
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MICHELLE!
Our baby is 42 today. Where has the time gone? And YES, she was named after the Beatles song "MICHELLE", And a beautiful Michelle she is :)
Love,
Mom and Dad
Monday, August 11, 2008
OH WOW!
Three families have posted today they received their I-600 approvals in record time. In 8 days or less!!! 2 submitted their I-600's the same day as me....So, Maybe when I wake up I'll have my approval waiting on my computer. Or, maybe before I go to bed! I think I'll stay up REALLY late tonight!
IT'S BEEN ONE ENTIRE WEEK!
Of waiting for our I-600 approval! I've been so busy with the painting and making a few hair bows, we hardly noticed a week has gone by. This week I'll get everyone ready for school so it should fly by too. Come next Monday, after everyone's in school, things will calm down around here and the waiting will start to sink in. I've heard the DOS has added more employees to handle all the I-600 apps. they're expecting, so maybe, just maybe, our wait won't be so long!!
I'm tired! My age is catching up with me. We spent the entire weekend painting bedrooms and moving furniture, getting ready for Hannah's arrival. What a job!
The boys went to the girls room and the girls are now in the boys room. The boys had the bigger room to accommodate their train table. That train table will have a new home...out on the patio.
The 3 little girls have Cinderella toddler beds. Yes, even though Hannah is almost 6, she's tiny, so for a little while longer the toddler beds will work. We already had 2 for Paisley and Amy. I just joined FREECYCLE.ORG and someone was giving away a Cinderella toddler bed!! How perfect was that? Saved me some $$$. 3 beds in a row, reminds me of the 3 little bears story. It looks so cute! Today I'm decorating the room. I'm off to find a little chandelier and I saw the cutest curtains with sequins and glitter at K-Mart for $10, it's their Disney Line.
Ryan wants me to put a train border in his room again, but Austin had pulled it down, not only theirs, but all the wallpaper throughout the house. I told him daddy would put a REAL train around the ceiling of the room instead. He was happy with that. OK, and when will daddy have the time to do that??? Probably NEVER! But he has wanted to for a long time now. Maybe I'll put the train border up at the ceiling where Austin can't reach it, if I can keep him off the top bunk!
I think I need a house with more bedrooms so they can all have their own decor! If this real estate slump ever goes away, that's the first thing I'm going to do...MOVE TO A BIGGER HOUSE!!!
Friday, August 8, 2008
PAISLEY GOT A HAIRCUT
I thought I was being SO careful with the scissors. I guess she has now joined that special little girls club with members all over the world. You know that special club. The one where you have to cut your own hair to be a member! And I was planning on growing out those bangs!! Not for a few months now. She took a nice big chunk right out of the middle, I don't know how she didn't scalp herself!
Thursday, August 7, 2008
ANOTHER HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DYLAN!
Today is our grandson Dylan's 16th Birthday! Wish we were there to celebrate with you!!!
XOXO
Grandma and Grandpap
Sunday, August 3, 2008
DOUBLE HAPPY DAY!!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TABITHA!
Today our granddaughter Tabby is 12! She's in the red shirt. Of course you all know Meg. The purple shirt is our granddaughter Luci. Today is her Mom's anniversary.
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY Kim & Roger!
It's such a shame our family is now spread out all over the country :( We all miss celebrating with everyone. Thank goodness we have the "eyeball" camera.
SOMETHIN'S CUMMIN, SOMETHIN' BIG!
I'm getting a BLOG makeover by
TINA at THE STORY OF YOU
and it's going to be FANTASTIC!!
Stay Tuned!